Learn to say “no.” Learn the fact that even those who have the ‘appearance’ of being “the elect” will not fit in with you. Some wheat is actually tare. Pay no attention to their selfish antics. With this new Heavenly position you will not have time for pretenders or those with personal agendas to use you to ‘make their point’ or make themselves look good. Watch your circle.
Just as they set up Jesus by trying to make Him stumble on His words, they are trying to do it to you. It’s a set up. Some will even pretend to ‘friend’ you to get the info they need to take you down. Keep your eyes on Jesus. Notice the Godly change within you and follow only His notions and nudges. The Holy Spirit is your teacher. Everybody WILL NOT be able to go with you. Say your last goodbyes, in fact, some will not be ‘goodbyes’ but eulogies.